I know it's soccer season and football season, but it's never too early to start thinking about basketball too!
My blog is usually used as a place to record the goings on in my life. That usually means pictures of my grandchildren! But I am very involved in the stake Relief Society presidency, so today you're going to get something related to that. Recently (I don't know any of the details) a young women from our stake showed up at the temple on her wedding day with a very immodest(strapless) wedding gown and she and her mother insisted that she be allowed to wear it as it was "her special day." Obviously she needed to be covered up inside the temple, but I understand she wore the dress outside for pictures. Anyway, it prompted our temple matron to contact our stake Relief Society president and ask her to address temple wedding dress standards and other modesty standards more thoroughly in our stake. In reviewing some articles I came across this interesting analogy related to a basketball game. I hope it will help the young mothers and fathers I love to be more diligent during these busy and patience-trying early years!
"Standards bless our homes. Children should be introduced to those standards while they are young. Teaching children has been likened to a basketball game. For the first eight minutes, the home team (that's us) can make all the points they wish without opposition. A smart coach (the parents) would instruct the team (that's our children) to stand as close as possible to the basket, making as many baskets as fast as possible before the eight-minute bell rang. The home team (that's us) would be so far ahead when the opposition stepped into the game that even if our team made some mistakes, we would still win the game of life. We have that opportunity, because Satan cannot tempt our children until they are eight. Let's hope we don't waste those years searching for the ball."Carol Hillam "Yea, They Had Been Taught By Their Mothers"
BYU Women's Conference 2000










































